Confirm the details given by marriage bureaus before getting married | Many points have to be checked before confirming the match

July 24th, 2010| In India.

Confirm the details given by marriage bureaus before getting married | Many points have to be checked before confirming the match

Open your eyes before marriage and close your eyes after marriage’ says the old adage. In the present scenario, It has become very important to verify the details furnished by the marriage bureaus about the brides and bridegroom before getting married in the.  Till some time back finding a match for the children in the family was on the shoulders of the elderly persons. Grandmothers, grand fathers, uncles and aunts participated in the task of finding a match.  All the relatives as well as the neighbors used to be familiar with the economic status and professional status of the bride or the bridegroom.  Now a day the person living in the house next us to is a stranger.   So the responsibility of finding a match is assigned to the marriage bureaus.  For lack of the time or for the fear of offending the other party, people keep silent and believe in the details the marriage bureaus furnish.  When the truth is in front of the eyes, one opts to finish the marriage.

One must be very careful while selecting a life partner. The details given by the marriage bureaus may not always be correct. Verify the details like educational qualifications and job details.  Generally these are the areas where most of the people are unfaithful. Some people furnish wrong information about the job, as working abroad or doing a government job. The person may not be working anywhere.  Some people hide the details about their past marriages. Physical disabilities and health problems are kept a secret.  They may be lying about their properties.

There are so many marriage bureaus coming up making it difficult for anybody to select a good and reliable marriage bureau.  Some marriage bureaus give the details of the two parties to each other without verifying the details for themselves, for the commissions they receive. Women look for a man with good education, job and social status. Men give preference to beauty. People now-a-day cannot bear a person who cheat them in such an important matter as a marriage. So be clear of what you want and what your partner wants in a life partner and talk to them clearly before marriage.

The details given in the marriage bureaus may not always be correct. Clear your doubts before taking the plunge.